Arguments, Apologies, and Headaches
This week my mom went to a conference called BlogHer. Let me just say this was not the best week for her to leave for New York City for FIVE WHOLE DAYS.
My dad and I had an disagreement argument the night before she left, and he said some things that really hurt my feelings. He apologized later that night and the next morning, and I said I forgave him, but I’m not sure I did because all of that week i cried and was overemotional and still felt ridiculously sad really furious sort of mad. It didn’t help when I got pushed off the couch, poked in the eye, and had have a splitting headache.
If anybody has any ideas on how to feel better and how to forgive my dad (for real) I’m ready to hear all of them. I understand he loves me and is sorry for the things he said, but apologizes aren’t helping this time. I feel really bad that I haven’t forgiven him. HELP MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stacia sometimes people say words in anger and regret later. You must always think before you speak cause words can not be taken back. If you have forgiven your Dad then you must forget too. That is all part of the process. With forgiveness you start anew. It is a new day and you give your Dad a hug and move on with life. It is like it never happened. So start fresh and you enjoy life more if you are not angry all the time. Love you Grandmama xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I do need your help, so WWW!
Grandma i haven’t done your advice but we did make up. My dad took me out for ice cream and we talked. There was some crying involved(mostly by me…) but it’s cool now. thanks for the help though!